Well, Well, Well...

Here we are again. Time flies by so fast and so many things have happened. It seems like things are slowly going back to normal. It has been a long 2 years for many of us, but even though with covid it was still a grand 2 years of learning and growth. I have meet some wonderful people who are in the scene and probably new friends for life.

December 2021 was the first year Exxxotica has every been hosting the the DMV area and one of the best I had been to. I have to say Thank you to Jay from YNOT for allowing me the pleasure of being one of the ladies hosting as his booth. 

This year 2022 is going to bring so many wonderful things in the community. 

Casey At Night is back on Wednesday nights at 7pm est and you do not want to miss out.
She is now featured in the AVN magazine and with amazing skills. She will be having a great line up of guests in the near future and you do not want to miss out. 

You can find her on twitter, Instagram and YouTube!

Well, I am over and out for now... But not forever! 

So much time has past by since I have done of of these things, but I can say things have been really fucking good for me.
I have gone to the Bahamas 4 time and finally went to Cozumel, Mexico, Of course all the trips have been boy funded,
I have been on so many great adventures that life has given me and taking them by the balls and running with them. lol

The past few months months I have met some fabulous fucking ladies. I have to give a shout out to Marabelle Blue for Kink Magazine and all she has done for the community along with Amberly Rothfield. You can find both of these ladies on twitter. 

Since I have been sitting on my lovely fat ass enjoying life...
​I figured it was about time for me to finally, after 5 years attend FETISHCONNNNNNNNNNNNNN
Yes, That is correct! I will be attending this year and so excited to see some of my old and new fetish peeps. 
I will also be taking bookings for sessions and content trade. So hit me up at GoddessToxic@gmail.com
I have been looking into some new toys to bring with me and tryout on some of you boys. hehehe

Well, I am over and out for now... Until next time.. Stay Kinky! 

I cannot believe how long it has been since I have done a blog. Guess I just been too busy to even care. 
Life has been good and I'm back on board and have so much planned ahead.

It's now time to get you boys back in my hands again. I know many of you have been lurking around waiting for me to pounce on you, But you bitches will come crawling to me as always.
I have more travel plans coming in the near future that YOU will take care of because I'm the Goddess!

I did not go to Fetishcon this year because I just did not feel like going this year.
There was a change of location and last year was so so that I figured I would be best just going to the Bahamas
for my birthday,in which I did.
It was amazing and I'm already planning on my next cruise.
If you are not paying attention you would realize that I'm more on twitter and instagram and you should know this.
I'm getting the... who are you and what do you do kind of nonsense and you boys should be doing your homework before approaching any Domme.
                                                                                        YOU'RE SLACKING!

It's amazing how long it has been since I have typed up a blog. So now here it is. I have ran into a few problems with boys not knowing what a Domme/sub relationship is.  Myself and many other ladies have made it very clear when you boys approach us of what your duties are when serving. Some rules might be slightly different for each Domme,
but the basics will never change. 

First off, when approaching  a Domme, You read her site, google her name or ask for info to read up on her.  
Then you PROPERLY introduce yourself to her. You do not ask if we want to see your nasty dirty cocks. 
Its a major tune off and will get you blocked. That is why many of you cocksuckers get passed on by me & many others because you have no "Home Training"( this means manners for you idiots wo are stuck on stupid).

2nd ....Tributing.... Our time is not free! If you think we are here to entertain you or watch you jack off for fun then you are SADLY mistaken.  It very sad how quickly you will call us whores when told to tribute for our time,but will gladly wank off to any of our material acting like we owe you something. It's pathetic and very unattractive.

3rd... Relationship... Now this is where it gets real good.... WE DO NOT WANT YOU AS OUR MAN! 
Let me say this again.... WE DO NOT WANT YOU AS OUR MAN! 

 We seek subs to do work for us, to better our lifestyles & to entertain us. We do NOT want to fuck you, We do not want you in our homes invading our space with your cooties, We will never never date you in any way shape or form. 
So for you boys who get pissed off because we wont attend a wedding or any other function as your DATE then go eat shit and die in a corner somewhere.  We are NOT your girlfriend or wives nor want to be! 

Just seems like many of you have gotten butt hurt when rejected because I will not attend a function with you because you assume somethiNg intimate will happen between us. WTF ARE YOU THINKING?  
We Dommes are not escorts nor prostitutes. You men come to us for something you are missing, not getting at home, or  noone in the "Vanilla" world will understand your kinks or fetish ... So give us some fucking RESPECT! 

4th...Real Time... Why do you think you deserve Real Times sessions when you haven't done shit to earn them? 
What makes you think we will drop everything we ladies are doing just to session with you and you are coming empty handed or going around whoring to anyone who will give you attention? It's takes time and dedication.
My boys serve me at least 3 to 6 months online before I will even consider Real time with them.
#1 safety issue
#2 apply to serve
#3 my time is not free
#4 prove to me you deserve my time
#5 understand where your place is at
Now if you can do those 5 things then you are looking real good in my eyes. I take what I do seriously and so should you.  
I can pick and choose who  I allow in my circle. I'm the Goddess.... 
I can do as I please & you just say Yes Goddess... as it should be!

You know you want to surrender to me.  
I know you are addicted to me.
 I can see you on my site and how many times you have looked for new material to wank to.
 I know your lillte cock craves me.
You cannot fight your addiction any longer!
Come to me now... Lets face it.... You are weak for me!

I know you sit at home alone in your room or hiding from your wifey or girlfriend.
 I like being your best kept secret. 
They cannot turn you on like I can. 
I know all of your buttons to push to get all of what I want from you.
You know I'm going to take all you have and laugh all the way to my bank with your money. 
Why resists? 
You know either way sooner or later... I get what I want! hahahaha

Lately I have been thinking and researching many ways to get healthier and I ran into this one option called "Oil Pulling". 
I know coconut oil is heathier than using the regular fatty oils to cook,so I have made that change and do see a difference when I cook my food. I also changed my style of cooking... Less frying.. more baking and steaming.
So for those who are wanting to know more about this option here is what I pulled off the net...
 You just never know until you try it!


"OIL PULLING"
For those who have battled a slight cold for this entire winter, they know there's no such thing as a miracle cure for the immune system, but one new method is purporting to be just that. Oil pulling, an ancient Ayurvedic method of detoxing and rejuvenating the body, is having its moment in the spotlight, thanks to its easy-to-try technique and already-in-the-pantry ingredients.

So what is oil pulling? It's literally consists of swishing oil around in your mouth, much like you would do with mouthwash, and allowing the benefits of it to take hold. According to Food Matters, studies have shown that oil pulling can reduce the amount of S. mutans (germs) in the teeth and mouth. The theory holds that thanks to the slick surface the oil creates (which you're already familiar with from your frying pan), it keeps bacteria from getting a good hold in your body.

Other studies have found actual "saponification" or cleansing effects that literally get rid of bacteria and fungus that can cause anything from bad breath to sore throats, according to Elephant Journal.

Popular oils to use for the process include sesame oil, olive oil, sunflower oil, or most recently, the very popular coconut oil. And here's what you do:

• First thing in the morning (before brushing or eating or drinking anything), pour yourself a tablespoon of the oil of your choice
• Put it in your mouth, and swish it around for anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes
• Spit it out into a plastic baggy (because it can solidify and clog your pipes)

• Rinse your mouth out with water, and then drink a glass of water

Many reports have people blowing their noses and clearing their throats right after oil pulling, as one of the many benefits include clearing out mucus in the body. As far as negative effects go, like most natural techniques, there hasn't been a huge amount of research done in the area, though it has not been found to be harmful by any studies conducted.

Well it's that time again and yes... 
I'm finally registered on the Fetishcon website & ready to roll!
I cannot wait till this years event because I will be filiming with a few special ladies this year. Snobby Alexa, QueenKittyOwnsU, Sarah Diavola, HaughtyFemDom & BrattyFootGirls. 
If you would like to make an appointment or book a session then you may go to my contact page and ask me for a few days that might be available to your schedule & mine as well.
There is a deposit required to hold your spot for Real Time sessions.
 I will be holding all session at my Hotel,so you will have to come to me. 
On that note.. over and out! Until next time boys & gals! Adios!

Yes... it has been a long time since I have done a blog for you boyz & fans. So I finally moved into my new place & I'm getting settled in. Slowly but surely & It is AMAZING! My place is nice and cozy. There are things I want since I am redecorating and I know you boys will make sure I get what I want.  As some of you know my Birthday was October 15th and many of you made it an amazing one. Between the cash & Gifts... Goddess was happy.... between all the amazon giftcards,gifts from my wishlist & cash that was sent to me it was one of the best I have ever had. Between,Brucey, Mikey, My lil Dick Virgin.... made me tickled Pink!  My New Boy Mr P is knocking you boys out of the park with a whopping $2500 in cash that was actually handed to me....
Now that is how I like it & Now he is one of my top boys.... So many plans for this boy.... Might even allow him to accompany to Fetishcon in Tampa next year.
Now LB is also a newbie for me who has watched me for a few years now,But was too scared to serve because he knew he couldn't give me what I deserved.... But lately he has been doing well,But I know he will get better... When he runs out of cash I now gave him the idea of pawning his items to make sure This Goddess has it all! See he is learning.... My time is not free... you are not giving to me then I walk right on your face & keep going! lmao

LB finally couldn't take it anymore & GAVE IN! Hmmmm I can't wait to take more from him. It's so HOT to know he is in my Toxic Web now! hahahahaha
Now I also had some random things come in. I have this sub who loves to buy me my toilet paper so then he can buy it back from me....$10 a sheet for my used toilet paper... Gotta love it!

Now the rest of the goodies from Brucey, Lil Dick,Mikey & Dinner with Mr. P....

Now I love eating Pho & I took Mr P. to one of my favorite spots to eat for my birthday... All paid by him of course!
As you can see how pretty & relaxed I was on my Best day... GODDESS DAY!
This meal I had was cooked & prepped very well.......Doesn't this look delish??
 It was FABULOUS & the Coconut Bubble Tea I had.... AMAZING!
The best ever... just talking about it makes me crave for one right now.

Now after all of that excitement, I was supposed to attend Domcon in Atlanta,Ga, But since  I had just moved & still had to settle things in....I thought it would be better to not attend this year in which, from what I read on twitter, by other ladies who attend... I do not regret my choice. I heard... I would of been so pissed and flipped the hotel around because of their bad service & unprofessionalism.... I was told it was unorganzied, the staff was very rude & the food... well It was crap & not enough.
I guess there were also cliques going on about who was a True Domme & who wasn't, this and that. I do not have time to get into that catty bullshit with girls who feel the need to boost their ego because they know how to
throw a whip around & trying to be  kiss ass of those who have been in the scene for a long time who have status. It's just a shame that shit like this goes down & the finger pointing .... Just so damn high school and I will not be apart of.
On Other topics... life is grand! lol
I have been making plans to go to Texas, North Carolina, LA,London & Florida next year. I have been working on my passport & I'm so excited to know I will get to finally meet some awesome UK/London Dommes & Subs in person.
Well that is all the juice I have for you now Boys & Girls..... Stay tuned for more Juicy Toxicness..... Toodles!

Sexual stimulation can come in many forms such as Photos,Touch,Sensual 
conversations,or just mentally. Each person has one or many ways of getting stimulated. As for me.... I have a little bit of each one.
Some photos I see are very erotic to me and give me a rush just as if I was 
 being touch in certain places of my body. It just takes me to a place where I 
 get this heated rush all over my body.
The same for Touch & Sensual Conversations,
But with touch....Insertion... Drives me nuts....
If it's the right person & a connection.
I love the mental sexual stimulation with men because I know they can't or 
not allow to have any part of me except in their dreams. I love being a fantasy for men in which they  hope becomes a reality.
The tease & Taunting is such a joy for me. I feel my nipples swell
& sometimes a pulsing between my legs when I know I have them where I want them. I'm addicted to the feeling as much as men are addicted to me.
  

Will I ever be able to stop with these certain behaviors? I don't think so.... It's like putting candy in front of a child and then telling them they cannot have it.... It changes my moods & does affect my everyday NORMAL life... If there is such thing with me.  I have done some  research and here is something interesting I have found....

Depending on the situation, a person can be sexually aroused by a variety of factors, both physical and mental.
A person may be sexually aroused by another person or by particular aspects of that person, or by a non-human object. The welcome physical stimulation of an erogenous zone or acts of foreplay can result  in arousal, especially if it is accompanied with the anticipation of imminent  sexual activity. Sexual arousal may be assisted by a romantic setting,
music or  other soothing situation. The potential stimuli for sexual arousal vary from  person to person, and from one time to another, as does the level of arousal.

Stimuli can be classified according to the sense involved: somatosensory (touch), visual, and olfactory (scent). Auditory stimuli are also possible,though they are generally considered secondary in role to the other three.
  Erotic stimuli which can result in sexual arousal can include conversation, reading, films or images or a smell or setting, any of which can generate erotic  thoughts and memories in a person. Given the right context, these may lead to  the person desiring physical contact, including kissing, cuddling, and petting  of an erogenous zone. This may in turn make the person desire direct sexual  stimulation of those parts of their body which would normally be out of
bounds,  such as breasts, nipples, buttocks and/or genitals, and to sexual activity.

Erotic stimuli may originate from a source unrelated to the object of subsequent sexual interest. For example, many people may find nudity, erotica or  pornography sexually arousing,which may generate a general sexual interest
which  is satisfied with sexual activity. When sexual arousal is achieved by or dependent on the use of objects, it is referred to as sexual fetishism, or in some instances a paraphilia.

There is a common belief that women need more time to achieve arousal. However, recent scientific research has shown that there is no considerable difference for the time men and women require to become fully aroused. 
 Scientists from McGill University Health Center in Montreal, Canada used the  method of thermal imaging to record baseline temperature change in genital area  to define the time necessary for sexual arousal.
Researchers studied the time  required for an individual to reach the peak of sexual arousal while watching  sexually explicit movies or pictures and came to the conclusion that on average  women and men took almost the same time for sexual arousal — around 10  minutes.The time needed for foreplay is very individualistic and varies from one  time to the next depending on many circumstances.

Unlike many other animals, humans do not have a mating season, and both sexes are potentially capable of sexual arousal throughout the year.