Many of you are seriously confused on the fetish "Financial Domination and what it means to serve Financially.
The "Domme" does not go out and prey on weak  men.
The "Domme does not go out & beg for tributes.
The Dommes does not  bargain nor does she care of what your expenses are.
The Dommes does not get naked or play with herself for your entertainment!
 
When you serve as a Financial Slave/Sun there are rules of etiquette that 
should be applied to this fetish by those of you who say you are seeking this 
 kind of servitude. Many of you are confusing other fetishes with this...
 So let me break it down to you.... Put your seat belt on boys... Are you ready? Ok let's do this.....
 
Financial domination (also known as money slavery) is a fetish lifestyle, in particular a practice of DS,
 where usually a male submissive  or money slave, pay pig human ATM, or cash piggie that gives gifts and money to a  financial female dominant (also known  as money mistress,  findomme, money domme).

The  relation may often be  accompanied by other practices of BDSM and Femdom, like humiliation,
but there may be virtually no further  intimacy between the individuals.
The relationship between the 'slave' and the  'mistress' may take place solely via online communication,
but it is not  uncommon that the 'slave' may accompany his mistress while she is shopping and  paying with his money.
 
Ok now I will translate this to a 5th grade level....
This means you pay your Domme what she requests or Demands without complaining,bitching,fussing,trying to give cheaper tributes or making excuses that you are broke and only have a certain amount. You do not get to pick or 
choose what you want to do.
The fetish in its self will tell you it's ALL ABOUT THE MONEY, POWER EXCHANGE & NOTHING MORE.
Has nothing to do about what you want or what you like or what you seek.
A sub always knows his place & is always respectful no matter what the situation is.
If you do not like these factors you can simply..... NOT CONTACT THE DOMME WHO IS INTO THIS FETISH!
Now many of you think this fetish has to do with sex... Now to a certain point it maybe .. MENTALLY...
But physically... NOT AT ALL.... You do not get to fuck anyone!
We are not prostitutes as many would claim when they cannot get their way because they do not want to pay.
 
Newbies on the scene are still learning and might be willing to accept those who tribute smaller amounts such as $50.00 here and there... BUT THAT IS NOT FINANCIAL DOMINATION!!!
It's not about saying... Get on cam so I know you are real then I will tribute kind of shit. 
Google works wonders!
You boys need to do your damn homework and stop wasting out fucking time with your idle bullshit.
 
These new girls that you say rip you off are not REAL Dommes. They watched a show called rinsing and all of a sudden woke up one day and said... I want to be a Domme & have no clue wtf  the scene is all about.

Now don't get me wrong... there are some newbies who actually put work into this fetish and are very good at what they do... but if you think  dropping a few gifts & $50.00 here and there is sufficient for this Fetish  then you are quit WRONG!
There are many big hitters like myself who have been here for many, many, many years and will continue to do so because we live for the lifestyle and we are not limited to just this fetish,But do not confuse us with those who 
do NOT know what the finer things in life are with this fetish....
Boyz... a Financial Domme will NOT get naked on cam for you, 

A Financial Domme will not play with her vagina on cam for you, 

A Financial Domme will not allow you to bargain down what she wants, 

A Financial Domme will not care what your expenses are, Will Not care about anything else except her & her money...  
 
Simple as that! Now yall have a great day ya hear!
  
 
 

Hey Boyz, It's about that time to let you know what has been going on the past few weeks. Seems like things have been very hectic & busy for me latey. Little bit more than usual,But It's a good feeling & I like what's been coming to me.
I have been on Cam alot lately & been in full effect wallet raping mode. Seems like many of you boys forgot how dangerous it was to play with me,But I love the fact you like to play in my hot Kitchen.
Some of you even have burn scars on your wallets right now! hahahaha

Seems like the sun has brought back some of my old boys who I almost destroyed & left for broke some time ago. Seems like they have recovered & back for more... as they ALWAYS do!
As Fetcon approaches there were & are things that must be taken care of for a Goddess like myself, So I have been putting my boys to work overtime to make sure I get what I want.
Mr. Cucky Cage... As I will call him, is enjoying the fact that my stud will be joining me for my Fetcon trip and has paid for our plane tickets, our 3 funpark pass's to SeaWorld,Aquatica, & Busch Gardens & has bought one of my Latex dress's for me & contributed to the 2nd one that is coming.
Oh So Yummmmmmy!

My New Your shoes boy has been slacking & hiding, But I caught him real quick. With in 2 minutes he was done for. My Awesome ,Adorable feet & another $75.00 giftcard was given... He better pick up the pace or he will be gone for good. I still will be taking applications now to have his spot taken over for just in case...
Girls gotta plan... You just never know when I can say bye bye to your loser ass's.

Western Unions are what I love best & Piggy Mike($200.00) & Piggy Jason( $500.00) have been wonderful... 
They  know what a girls likes...
 cash is ALWAYS best in my eyes & hands!

On a Side not from all the gifts & treats I have been getting from you boyz. I had to stop & take a break...
My stud just loves my feet... Be JEALOUS BITCHES! HAHAHAHAHA

Now back to our regularly scheduled program... ME!
My amazon boys have been doing great.... I have so much stuff coming in,But cannot unpack it right now since I will be moving real soon. So right now I'm just focusing on the little things.... But don't you fret boyz. There is always more to come & show from you....

Just keep sending in all my goodies and keeping me happy.....
Remember... A Goddess is a reflection of Perfection... & You have found it!

Well it's about that time again and Yes I will be attending Fetish Con again
this year.
As you can see by the pic posted, I did attend last year if you didn't know that.
I had such a blast and met so many wonderful people that I will
be there again.
I will also be taking appointments for session during August 14th thru the 19th, while I am there. If you wish to book a spot with me then do so asap.
I will be limiting the amounts of sessions I will be doing this year.
A deposit is required along with a properly filled out application that can be filled out here on my site.
 You may also contact me on my contact page with any questions.
If you would like more info on FetishCon and how to get your ticket then you may go to the FetishCon Link below. Hope to see you there... Toodles!

WWW.FETISHCON.COM

Damn... It's been a HOT minute since I have done a blog and I don't even know where to begin..... First off I would like to thank those who have supported me during my trying time with my son.
Many of you know he fell very ill on Feb 3rd and was paralized. I'm now glad to inform you that he is now doing very well & appreciates all the supplies that were donated to him.
In Other news I have been making alot of changes to my sites as you may now realize. I will no longer have a free gallery because alot of you losers think it's a free for all wank fest without paying a damn dime.
I keep track of who goes to what pages on my site so I know what to do later down the road. I CONTROL WHAT HAPPENS HERE.... NOT YOU!
Also many of you are playing too many games and thinking you will get something from me if you tribute....
YOU WILL GET NOTHING UNLESS I SAY YOU DESERVE IT! 
I GUESS YOU BITCHES DO NOT REALIZE AFTER ALL THIS TIME THAT I AM A BALL BUSTING BITCH AND NOT HERE TO GIVE YOU ANY SATIFACTION UNLESS I GRANT YOU IT!
Changing your name and making many accounts will not trick me. Don't you think you are too old for the bullshit games and Dommes do talk. Tisk.. Tisk... So many have tried and so many have failed...
My cam is not free and tributes are gifts to me... Yes they are Gifts and if you do not know what that means then Fucking Google it!
I have had many requests for Real Time and only 2 made it out of 26 requests because they know what gets my attention and that is CASH! These 2 boys did not try to hagle with me and did as they were told and went through my process in which they were rewarded. They also received RealTime and worshipped me at my feet. They were so blessed and proud. One even cam in his pants when he seen me. Didn't think it was true. See he was punished because he didn't control himself.... He paid dearly! hahahahahaha
My 2nd boy just loved my feet and paid for my pedicures and 6 pairs of shoes so far & also dropped
$1500.00 cash at my feet. How wonderful it is to be me.He is now back in his country and I should be receiving a treat from him very soon.... He knows the way to my feet.

Now I plan on going to Fetish Con in Tampa, August 14th thru the 19th & I am accepting deposits now for Real Time session appointments.  If you do not apply and tribute then there will be no sessioning with me at all. I have a schedule that I will run off of and I will only make a few exceptions for making clips with other ladies & their subs.
 Until that tmes come there are a few things I want now... I want Southwest.com giftcards, I want amazon.com giftcard, I want Cash & Greendots... I have many supplies to get before this time so many it happen....
In the next few weeks I will be on cam & have my phone lines open. for those who wish to pay for my private number can do so through the contact page. If you do not have $100 for me the I guess we have nothing to talk about!
Until next time my pets...... Toodles Bitches!

I received a call on my Niteflirt line on 1/19/2013 from a new piggy by the name MSS telling me how he adores me and he used to serve this mistress who moved  away and got him addicted to crack cocaine.
He says he tries to fight the urge  he gets but can no longer hold back. He tells me that he can
see I am very  powerful & Strong in which I am,But long does he know what I am capable of. 
So the call goes on......He proceeds to tell me that he has 3 bank accounts.
 2 from USAA & 1  from Chase bank.
 First account has $300,000
 2nd account has $1.5 million &
  the 3rd has $800,000.
Michael tells me that he wants to me take access to one of the accounts and pay all of my bills.
 He then tells me his name full name & Address which is...
Michael Seldin
11728 Wilshire Blvd.
Las Angeles,Cali
90025
Phone # 310-600-1642
Birth Date 6/20/66
Also claims he is a movie producer for 20 yrs and produced the movie the  A-team. Now I'm laughing my ass off to his lies... Gotta love when they actually  think you will believe their bullshit. So anyways he starts
asking me if it's ok  for him to take a hit of his Glass Dick which he loves so
much.... (For you dumb ass's out there Glass Dick means crack pipe.) He starts telling me that he is divorced with one child and his ex wife is Lisa Wachs and  her phone number is 917-514-0701.
Continues to tell me that he wants to be  ruined and if I will make it so he is never allowed to see his own
child.He then  proceeds to tell me he wants me to shop using his Victoria Secrets credit card  to shop while he was online. So he gives me this card number which is 4104 8912  4708 6316 expire date is 09/14 and sec. code is 439.
 
He keeps talking and then asked of he can suck his glass dick again so I tell him to suck it up until it hurts.
He then comes back from his state of "haze' and tells me he wants me to hit his account and then starts giving me his account number for the USAA Bank which  is Routing number 314074269 & Account number 130383244. Now in between this  time we called 2 of my cards and had them paid and the company
verified that the  account is real. So I sat back and waited for the payment to be taken back  because I know how assholes work.,But I have Micheal recorded agreeing to these  2 payments in which my company is now going after him for fraudulent payments.  
This bitch is  5'9 in height and weighs 190lbs. Blue eyes and Brown hair.
His  emails address is sseldin2@aol.com. I do  not have time to play with these fucking lying cuntbags. I will just fucking  ruin your life and laugh while I do it. I have told you boyz many, many, many  times not to cross me,but there is always one bitch who has to test me... Now we  shall see who will be laughing now...
By the way enjoy your glass dick now  Michael!

As time goes on, I read many stories on how subs say they are "bored" or not getting enough attention or "strolling" around to other Mistress's being totally disrespectful. What ever happen to Loyalty & Honesty. Does that even exist anymore in the scene? Not everything will be perfect,But you boys seen to have a misconception on what we Mistress,Goddess,Princess & Ladies expect from you.

You come to us begging to serve and you want to be the best pet we have ever had and all of this and that nonsense,But have you really looked at yourself and said.... you are being fucking selfish and only here for what you want and not of those of your Mistress?

The lack of respect that has been going around is unbelievable by man of you so called subs.
I do not care if you are owned or not... Respect should always be your number one with anyone in the female form. If you do not like what that Mistress is saying then simply move on. The shit talking and shit stiring is uncalled for and I will certainly not want you any where near me because I would knock your damn teeth out like my mom would say.

Question..... Why is it so important for you to have your dick in your hand 24/7 when approaching a Mistress/Goddess? Do you honestly think if you go to a bar or a club that you will get any connection with anyone with you walking around with it just trying to slap everyone in the face with it or trying to shove it down your throat so YOU can feel better? It's plain nasty and totally disrespectful!
I might be old fashioned,but I still expect a man to act like a man with MANNERS no matter what his intentions are.

Now wtf is up with this from you boys.... I want you to verify who you are to me Mistress??
Hmmmm Excuses me? Are you out of your mind?
Yes I say out of your mind because if you boyz would pay attention with the head on your shoulders and not the little one in your head you would be able to realize who is real and who is here for a few bucks and will run off when school starts again.

There are many wonderful ladies who have been around for a very long time that have sites, phone lines, many photos and clips pf themselves in which you boyz approach them and still decided to come out of the side of your neck and still ask them to verify?
Why don't you verify who in the hell you are so we can see you are safe and sane! 
Many of you play too many games and like to waste time,so why do you think we are gonna act like a total cunts to you?
So what needs to be done and maybe you will finally get a connection with someone who will want to accept you to serve her under her terms,But understand this.... Sucking assholes, Sucking Pussy, or Fucking a Domme is NOT SERVING IN MY EYES AND HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH FINANCIAL DOMINATION!

As time goes on, I have been approached to be a key holder for many who
need to feel controlled because of many reasons. Some are sex addicts, Some are
just wanking too much, & Some just loved being controlled by a woman.


My problem with this is many ask for something they are not ready for.


If you are seeking a key holder in which I am, then send the key and stop
playing games. My time is of value & could be spent on those who really love
to be controlled & who deserve my attention. So many complain about ladies
being Real and when they find one... you boys do not know what to do or make so
many excuse to go forward.


What is it you are scared of?


Why start something you cannot handle or not ready for?


If you are not ready for that type of control then do not ask for it.


I love totally denying my boyz & rewarding them when I feel like they
deserve it,But mostly..... they do it just to please ME!

Some of you boys have been really good this past 2 weeks and then some of you Suck....
 Big Hairy Monkey Balls.
I have been waking up to giftcards,But they are not of Goddess standards and that is why some of you losers never got a response. When you boyz came to me awhile back you already knew what needed to be done to serve and keep me happy and you have FAILED miserably!
So until you step up and give me what you know I deserve.... You will get no response from me!

 Now to the Good Boyz...You already know that you have received private text photos from me....
 that Only You have... You should be lucky you have such a good Goddess like me....
See you have to be like my Piggy Boy J... He knows his place & How to keep his Goddess with a smile on her face... No broken promises and he ALWAYS makes sure I AM FIRST!

I know when you get some balls you will give then to me along with your "WALLET" in hand...
 Just the way it should be!!!!!
As some of you know, I did go to Fetcon 2012 and had a blast on your dime in Tampa, Fl.
I even had a better time making this clip with HaughtyFemDom.
I will be going to Fetcon 2013 & Seeking Good boyz ro fil & Serve at the end of my leash.
So go apply and show me your worth... In the mean time Go & buy my Fucking clips!
My Clip Store!

Well alot has happened since I returned from Fetcon that I didn't expect to happen. Some of you may know that I have had major back surger some years ago.
While I was at Fetcon, I hadn't been feeling well and notice my feet swelling alot & for no good reason(as I thought).
Miss Tierra allowed her foot boy to massage my feet while we were out & about(which a good Boy he was). It helped but the problem didn't go away. Saturday night was a low key night for me. I met up with some other wonderful dommes who are simply amazing in my book.
Goddess Memphis, Goddess Livia & CubanFinDomme left with me to go to my room to hang out and relax for a bit since the humidity and heat was a bitch for all of us. I swear why did they have to have Fetcon in August in Tampa with 1000 degree weather?  So anyways it was so nice seeing them and having some girl talk. I know you wish you were a fly on that wall cause boy there was some hot conversation going on... But too bad...
You will never know what we said!
It's None of your damn business anyways you nosey lil bitch!
So here is our pic that we all took together....

After our girl talk, we went to see a few others,But not much to say about that.... So anywho it was getting late and I still had packing up to do.  So I said my goodbyes to the ladies and headed back to my room to just cuddle up in my nice warm bed. I will say this... The Marriot Residence inn in downtown Tampa,Fl sucks in customer service & I will NEVER stay with them ever again!
Sunday.... My phone rings and when I answer it,It was the airport telling me that my flight was cancelled and thatI wouldn't be able to take a flight till midnight. I was so fucking heated because my flight was scheduled to leave at 8pm. WTF was I gonna do in Tampa airport for 4 fucking hours and feeling like shit. So I called the airines and ripped them a new assholes.
Thank God I got someone on the line who had some common sense and was great in getting me a 1:15pm flight. This was at 10 am when this call was taking place so I had no time to waste.
I threw everything in my bags, took a quick sher and headed out the damb door... then my feet started swelling again and fatigue set in. Now I'm like wtf is going on. So I made it to the airport dropped off my rental, checked in my bags, boarded the plane and was able to take a nap.
The flight was bumpy & made me so nauseated. I was glad to be home nice and early.
 Monday I called the Dr because I had a bad feeling something was wrong and I was getting a strange feeling down my leg & was told to come in the next day.... Now I had already had x-rays done on my back before I left to Tampa. I was told that my vertebre was 3cm pushed in and it was narrowing around my spinal cord. We tried physical therapy, local injection, and direct spinal injection with no help.... Now finally the Dr tells me when I go to see him that I must have  back surgery to repair all the damage in my back before it gets any worse. Dr said I had 2 weeks to get things done and in order at home because I needed to clear things out from my walking path and timeto take care of anything else of importance.
August 20th, 2012 ...... Report to Hospital for surgery at 6am, prepped and ready for surgery by 7:30am.

The surgery was about 5 hours & this is how I looked after they finally set me up in my private room. I'm so glad I was alone because I don't think I could of dealt with anyone else's bullshit.

I will tell you when I woke up I was in so much pain that no matter what they gave me didn't work. I was supposed to go home the next day,but that didn't happen. I didn't go home until Friday & even with that was a problem. Dr assigned me a nurse & a physical therapist to help me get around and take care of me. This is how my surgery looked like when the nurse came for the first visit...

20 staples from the crack of my ass to half way up my back. This is not because I had a accident,or fell or anything... I have what is called connective tissue disease & degenerative disc disease.
If you want to know what that is then google it.  This blog is kicking my ass & I'm so tired! lol
Now 2 weeks passed and it was my time to see the Dr to get my staples removed. Thank Good because these damn things were digging in my back. Everytime I would move I swear I thought I was gonna rip open.
So now I'm doing well and this is how my scar looks now...

 Dr says I have a way to go,But I can still kick ass and doing much better..... Now just getting ready for my birthday! Until next time Bitches.....Laterz!