When being in this lifestyle there are rules that EVERYONE must follow.
No matter if you are a Domme or Sub. There are sites and groups that are
made for us to explore,advertise,blog and to meet other people.
Now rules are in place for a reason wether we like them or not. It's just a
part of life..
Now with Rules come with respect. When you join someone's group or site
there are rules that are implemented that also goes along with respect. If you
don't like the rules, you do not have to,but the respect should be there.
Without other people and sites you wouldn't be where you are today if you are
mostly online.
It's advertising & marketing that is keeping your pockets filled.
Yes you may do the work,but without these sites & groups how would
people know about you?
If you come in with the attitude that you do not have to follow rules or
respect anyone how do you think you will be accepted? Don't you think that is a
negative and could hurt your so called business as some would say. Don't you
think you get more with honey than you do with vinegar is some cases? Do you
think starting drama and bashing Dommes worked have worked so hard to keep the
scene at a certain level because of bullshit fakes?
Everyone has their own way of doing things,But stepping on those who have
paved the way for you is not the way to go. I do not mind helping anyone who
needs it or teaching them a thing or 2,but when your approach is one of a
hostile one then the behavior you receive back is the same you dish out.
There are times I go on sites and some of their rules are bullshit to
me.... But is it my site or did I make the rules??? No I didn't,But I respect
it because there is another play option for me. If I don't like the site or do
not want to follow rules... THEN I SIMPLY REMOVE MYSELF.
Now as a Domme in this Financial Fetish community I have found that some of
the so called "CATTINESS" is uncalled for and sometimes just started because
people are either bored or just in a PMS mood.... But MOSTLY...It's well
deserved because someone has either stolen content,bashed a Domme for no reason
or just looking to ride the coattails of Dommes who have been here for a long
time and have what I call "STATUS".
It's a shame that US Dommes who have worked our ass's off , have to deal
with such stupidity by these newbies who think they can say fuck you, stick up
a middle finger,show some ass, be called Dommes & try to belittle other
Dommes because we call them out for scamming boys & stealing what they have
no right to.
Now I have been very fair and have said my peace in these situations and
clean my hands after this.... But do not think for one second I will tolerate
childish bullshit.
Now my way is not the only way to Domme,but shit I must be doing something
right if people are stealing my pix,trying to steal my boys,taking my boys off
my list,taking my website content and trying to get me to mention their name
since they think negative attention will place them in the "BIG LEAGUES".I
shake my head because these chicks have it sadly mistaken & will find out
the hard way.
As I sit back & watch I have seen some great new Dommes who are coming
up because they are doing their thing & putting their own touch and work
into what they have become and I give them congrats, But when you think
stepping on others,You don't have rules to follow or think you are beyond those
who have been here for years....
YOU HAVE ANOTHER THING COMING!
No matter if you are a Domme or Sub. There are sites and groups that are
made for us to explore,advertise,blog and to meet other people.
Now rules are in place for a reason wether we like them or not. It's just a
part of life..
Now with Rules come with respect. When you join someone's group or site
there are rules that are implemented that also goes along with respect. If you
don't like the rules, you do not have to,but the respect should be there.
Without other people and sites you wouldn't be where you are today if you are
mostly online.
It's advertising & marketing that is keeping your pockets filled.
Yes you may do the work,but without these sites & groups how would
people know about you?
If you come in with the attitude that you do not have to follow rules or
respect anyone how do you think you will be accepted? Don't you think that is a
negative and could hurt your so called business as some would say. Don't you
think you get more with honey than you do with vinegar is some cases? Do you
think starting drama and bashing Dommes worked have worked so hard to keep the
scene at a certain level because of bullshit fakes?
Everyone has their own way of doing things,But stepping on those who have
paved the way for you is not the way to go. I do not mind helping anyone who
needs it or teaching them a thing or 2,but when your approach is one of a
hostile one then the behavior you receive back is the same you dish out.
There are times I go on sites and some of their rules are bullshit to
me.... But is it my site or did I make the rules??? No I didn't,But I respect
it because there is another play option for me. If I don't like the site or do
not want to follow rules... THEN I SIMPLY REMOVE MYSELF.
Now as a Domme in this Financial Fetish community I have found that some of
the so called "CATTINESS" is uncalled for and sometimes just started because
people are either bored or just in a PMS mood.... But MOSTLY...It's well
deserved because someone has either stolen content,bashed a Domme for no reason
or just looking to ride the coattails of Dommes who have been here for a long
time and have what I call "STATUS".
It's a shame that US Dommes who have worked our ass's off , have to deal
with such stupidity by these newbies who think they can say fuck you, stick up
a middle finger,show some ass, be called Dommes & try to belittle other
Dommes because we call them out for scamming boys & stealing what they have
no right to.
Now I have been very fair and have said my peace in these situations and
clean my hands after this.... But do not think for one second I will tolerate
childish bullshit.
Now my way is not the only way to Domme,but shit I must be doing something
right if people are stealing my pix,trying to steal my boys,taking my boys off
my list,taking my website content and trying to get me to mention their name
since they think negative attention will place them in the "BIG LEAGUES".I
shake my head because these chicks have it sadly mistaken & will find out
the hard way.
As I sit back & watch I have seen some great new Dommes who are coming
up because they are doing their thing & putting their own touch and work
into what they have become and I give them congrats, But when you think
stepping on others,You don't have rules to follow or think you are beyond those
who have been here for years....
YOU HAVE ANOTHER THING COMING!
